Friday, 12 May 2017

GIRL I know ..You are so Deep -Dark-Deadly heart broken... ...But There is always a way to get over ....!!!!!!

Well If you are a Girl, that's possibly true..and you know that because no truer word has ever spoken than "Breaking up is hard to do". And If you are going through this situation then there is a saying for you ..."CRY AS MUCH AS YOU WANT TO BUT JUST MAKE SURE WHEN YOU ARE FINISHED ..YOU NEVER CRY FOR THE SAME REASON AGAIN" ....

Why this post .???  Because I feel its needed ..... Today .. .It's about HER ..and I may help on my own way ...Let's see how much I can make it actually happen ..

The Girls with hair highlights amazingly good-looking and sweet by nature at the same time ...her natural smile and good-humored laughter can make anyone  laugh.....She is caring and have concern for others.. You can never ever have any grumble with her ..she is that kind-hearted...a heart that knows how to love ...how to care ...how to take responsibilities...and what not . She loves to looks good ..maintain herself ..even her choice is good ..no doubt she loves to shop ...she mostly gets an expression of praise for the same ( if she reads this ..she is gonna love that line atleast)....that happy-go-lucky girl had someone very special in her life too ....Infact that person was an irreplaceable part of her life  and so for him .......when you feel good about giving your love as a gift and that feeling is reciprocated by the one you love , then you both are in love with each other ..exactly the same things was happening between too..but she was deeply madly in love with him ....that could clearly seen each and every moment in her eyes ..smile ...what else one can desire more than to feel that love ...I can say for her ..love never came with any justification ..that's why she loved way beyond ..beyond every obstacle ..caste .religion ..sick-minds ...etc ...she just loved full of her extent ...isn't it  feels so good to know ? yeah..it is.

Well..when everything was so perfect then what misery happened to her ..that was "BREAK UP "..and that happens like a catastrophe ....but let me tell you girl ..that was not your fault at all and you know that well..
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BTW ,,why this Break-up thing happens when you actually are in love so deep with someone you cant live without or a single moment you can't  think about of your life...and majorly who is liable for that ..whom to blame ..when you are barely in the state of thinking of anything ..Was it  her mistake to fell in love with wrong person ? Or Does she needs to feel bad for herself wasting such precious time of her life on that wrong person who broke her heart and walk away ? ...

I know uncountable questions will comes in your mind ...and the answer you should tell yourself is "NO " ..Infact a BIG NO....because the people that are quick to walk away are the ones who never intended to stay ..and he is the one who walked away ....and you never ...so ..He is going to be sorry he lost you , stop worrying ..forget the past ..forget the pain .and remember what an incredible woman you are ....you deserve to be with somebody who makes you happy ..somebody who doesn't complicate your life ..somebody who won't hurt you again...Its your life ..live it just your own way no matter what ..do whatever makes you happy ...it could be shopping ..eating out ..watching 90's movies ....gossip with girl-friends over a cup of tea ...make-over ...flaunting yourself ...may be sometimes get mad at someone ( in a funny way) ...it just could be anything ..and that not necessarily  should make sense all the time ..its just to make yourself happy and nothing else....you are best your own way ....and to make you feel special nobody random needs to pretend loving you  ...!!!!! I know you can get over that bad relationship.....  I am pretty sure you will be back to yourself very soon ...YOU ARE SPECIAL. 

Well ..I know its not that easy but honestly not impossible ...and whenever you are going through the BREAK UP PHASE ..Do yourself a favor and learn how to walk away ..When a connection starts to fade .learn how to let it go ..When a person starts to mistreat you ..learn how to move on ..to something and someone better..Don't waste your energy trying to force something that is not meant to be ..Because the truth is .for every person who doesn't value you..there are tons more to love you better -DO BETTER !!!!

A Heartbreak is a blessing from GOD .Its just his way of letting you realize that he saved you from the wrong person ...and now I probably feel that keeping such things in mind you can help yourself to get away from the sick relationships.....but even if all these things doesn't work for you then there is a striking idea for you that can actually work ..."If someones breaks your heart GO and PUNCH THEM IN THE  FACE ..YES DO IT and then TREAT YOURSELF WITH GOOD FOOD " ..(Laughter) ...may be it works ...!!!!!! 

So ..Always remember YOU ARE SPECIAL ..and never regret too " If its good .its wonderful ..If its bad ..its experience..!!!!!!!!!









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