What IF ...??????????

What If I stop talking and  just start  watching the activities of others while conversation ....???
What If  I don't listen to opinions  rather take the decisions ??? What If I  starts talking to anyone whom I don't even know ??? What If I stare any of the guy seductively and don't care about their opinion for me ?? What If  I start smiling over any stranger while passing the roads ??? What If I just dance like nobody is watching ?? What If I this ..What If I  that ?? Stop.........Well there are so many What If exits in our life ..and wanders across the mind almost 24 X 7 but we poor human beings are so damn conscious about what they are thinking and let go the what if ......................

The question is why cant we make it little simple for us, after all its all about the small things in life that actually matters and gives us unlimited happiness unreasonably . We can be weirdo at a times even without  justifying ourselves to others and trust me its the best part to not justify us in front of anyone for the actions we do to make us happy really really happy. I don't understand why just can't we be free, live free even after self declaration? I guess its  because we are trapped in our own thoughts , belief system , excuses primarily ..rest all the things are secondary somewhere. And the saddest part is that we are not ready to accept it ..we are lying to ourselves because we fear to answer our own questions, so we never dare to give it a try..whether we accept it or not,  the truth will be remaining the truth ..unless we change it..

Well ..  There are many  who are trapped into the web of their own thoughts with no conclusions but confusions ..wanting tiny things in life to make them  happy but can't dare to take the initiative ..striving badly to come out from the web but something holding them back ....and that's the checkpoint  where we need to stop and check the quality of thoughts what we are creating and where we are heading with this ..? Friends firstly we have to accept our fear and say to ourselves that "Its Okay" ....and then need to go for it ..  no matter what is the level of our fear we need to cross the level ..and also know that everyone around is thinking the same somewhere . someone has to start the change and become mad , crazy , cool , fearless with life ..in life ..with others ..with ourselves ..

Trust me the day we will stop thinking and start doing ..we will be happy and fearless ..!!!!!!!!
 I don't know how much it make  sense but realization is important.. Apart from all  .the most important What If in life is .. What If I die tomorrow  ??  Did I made my life worth it...So , I will start the change for me ..will you do it for you ????? 

GIRL I know ..You are so Deep -Dark-Deadly heart broken... ...But There is always a way to get over ....!!!!!!

Well If you are a Girl, that's possibly true..and you know that because no truer word has ever spoken than "Breaking up is hard to do". And If you are going through this situation then there is a saying for you ..."CRY AS MUCH AS YOU WANT TO BUT JUST MAKE SURE WHEN YOU ARE FINISHED ..YOU NEVER CRY FOR THE SAME REASON AGAIN" ....

Why this post .???  Because I feel its needed ..... Today .. .It's about HER ..and I may help on my own way ...Let's see how much I can make it actually happen ..

The Girls with hair highlights amazingly good-looking and sweet by nature at the same time ...her natural smile and good-humored laughter can make anyone  laugh.....She is caring and have concern for others.. You can never ever have any grumble with her ..she is that kind-hearted...a heart that knows how to love ...how to care ...how to take responsibilities...and what not . She loves to looks good ..maintain herself ..even her choice is good ..no doubt she loves to shop ...she mostly gets an expression of praise for the same ( if she reads this ..she is gonna love that line atleast)....that happy-go-lucky girl had someone very special in her life too ....Infact that person was an irreplaceable part of her life  and so for him .......when you feel good about giving your love as a gift and that feeling is reciprocated by the one you love , then you both are in love with each other ..exactly the same things was happening between too..but she was deeply madly in love with him ....that could clearly seen each and every moment in her eyes ..smile ...what else one can desire more than to feel that love ...I can say for her ..love never came with any justification ..that's why she loved way beyond ..beyond every obstacle ..caste .religion ..sick-minds ...etc ...she just loved full of her extent ...isn't it  feels so good to know ? yeah..it is.

Well..when everything was so perfect then what misery happened to her ..that was "BREAK UP "..and that happens like a catastrophe ....but let me tell you girl ..that was not your fault at all and you know that well..
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BTW ,,why this Break-up thing happens when you actually are in love so deep with someone you cant live without or a single moment you can't  think about of your life...and majorly who is liable for that ..whom to blame ..when you are barely in the state of thinking of anything ..Was it  her mistake to fell in love with wrong person ? Or Does she needs to feel bad for herself wasting such precious time of her life on that wrong person who broke her heart and walk away ? ...

I know uncountable questions will comes in your mind ...and the answer you should tell yourself is "NO " ..Infact a BIG NO....because the people that are quick to walk away are the ones who never intended to stay ..and he is the one who walked away ....and you never ...so ..He is going to be sorry he lost you , stop worrying ..forget the past ..forget the pain .and remember what an incredible woman you are ....you deserve to be with somebody who makes you happy ..somebody who doesn't complicate your life ..somebody who won't hurt you again...Its your life ..live it just your own way no matter what ..do whatever makes you happy ...it could be shopping ..eating out ..watching 90's movies ....gossip with girl-friends over a cup of tea ...make-over ...flaunting yourself ...may be sometimes get mad at someone ( in a funny way) ...it just could be anything ..and that not necessarily  should make sense all the time ..its just to make yourself happy and nothing else....you are best your own way ....and to make you feel special nobody random needs to pretend loving you  ...!!!!! I know you can get over that bad relationship.....  I am pretty sure you will be back to yourself very soon ...YOU ARE SPECIAL. 

Well ..I know its not that easy but honestly not impossible ...and whenever you are going through the BREAK UP PHASE ..Do yourself a favor and learn how to walk away ..When a connection starts to fade .learn how to let it go ..When a person starts to mistreat you ..learn how to move on ..to something and someone better..Don't waste your energy trying to force something that is not meant to be ..Because the truth is .for every person who doesn't value you..there are tons more to love you better -DO BETTER !!!!

A Heartbreak is a blessing from GOD .Its just his way of letting you realize that he saved you from the wrong person ...and now I probably feel that keeping such things in mind you can help yourself to get away from the sick relationships.....but even if all these things doesn't work for you then there is a striking idea for you that can actually work ..."If someones breaks your heart GO and PUNCH THEM IN THE  FACE ..YES DO IT and then TREAT YOURSELF WITH GOOD FOOD " ..(Laughter) ...may be it works ...!!!!!! 

So ..Always remember YOU ARE SPECIAL ..and never regret too " If its good .its wonderful ..If its bad ..its experience..!!!!!!!!!