What IF ...??????????

What If I stop talking and  just start  watching the activities of others while conversation ....???
What If  I don't listen to opinions  rather take the decisions ??? What If I  starts talking to anyone whom I don't even know ??? What If I stare any of the guy seductively and don't care about their opinion for me ?? What If  I start smiling over any stranger while passing the roads ??? What If I just dance like nobody is watching ?? What If I this ..What If I  that ?? Stop.........Well there are so many What If exits in our life ..and wanders across the mind almost 24 X 7 but we poor human beings are so damn conscious about what they are thinking and let go the what if ......................

The question is why cant we make it little simple for us, after all its all about the small things in life that actually matters and gives us unlimited happiness unreasonably . We can be weirdo at a times even without  justifying ourselves to others and trust me its the best part to not justify us in front of anyone for the actions we do to make us happy really really happy. I don't understand why just can't we be free, live free even after self declaration? I guess its  because we are trapped in our own thoughts , belief system , excuses primarily ..rest all the things are secondary somewhere. And the saddest part is that we are not ready to accept it ..we are lying to ourselves because we fear to answer our own questions, so we never dare to give it a try..whether we accept it or not,  the truth will be remaining the truth ..unless we change it..

Well ..  There are many  who are trapped into the web of their own thoughts with no conclusions but confusions ..wanting tiny things in life to make them  happy but can't dare to take the initiative ..striving badly to come out from the web but something holding them back ....and that's the checkpoint  where we need to stop and check the quality of thoughts what we are creating and where we are heading with this ..? Friends firstly we have to accept our fear and say to ourselves that "Its Okay" ....and then need to go for it ..  no matter what is the level of our fear we need to cross the level ..and also know that everyone around is thinking the same somewhere . someone has to start the change and become mad , crazy , cool , fearless with life ..in life ..with others ..with ourselves ..

Trust me the day we will stop thinking and start doing ..we will be happy and fearless ..!!!!!!!!
 I don't know how much it make  sense but realization is important.. Apart from all  .the most important What If in life is .. What If I die tomorrow  ??  Did I made my life worth it...So , I will start the change for me ..will you do it for you ????? 

GIRL I know ..You are so Deep -Dark-Deadly heart broken... ...But There is always a way to get over ....!!!!!!

Well If you are a Girl, that's possibly true..and you know that because no truer word has ever spoken than "Breaking up is hard to do". And If you are going through this situation then there is a saying for you ..."CRY AS MUCH AS YOU WANT TO BUT JUST MAKE SURE WHEN YOU ARE FINISHED ..YOU NEVER CRY FOR THE SAME REASON AGAIN" ....

Why this post .???  Because I feel its needed ..... Today .. .It's about HER ..and I may help on my own way ...Let's see how much I can make it actually happen ..

The Girls with hair highlights amazingly good-looking and sweet by nature at the same time ...her natural smile and good-humored laughter can make anyone  laugh.....She is caring and have concern for others.. You can never ever have any grumble with her ..she is that kind-hearted...a heart that knows how to love ...how to care ...how to take responsibilities...and what not . She loves to looks good ..maintain herself ..even her choice is good ..no doubt she loves to shop ...she mostly gets an expression of praise for the same ( if she reads this ..she is gonna love that line atleast)....that happy-go-lucky girl had someone very special in her life too ....Infact that person was an irreplaceable part of her life  and so for him .......when you feel good about giving your love as a gift and that feeling is reciprocated by the one you love , then you both are in love with each other ..exactly the same things was happening between too..but she was deeply madly in love with him ....that could clearly seen each and every moment in her eyes ..smile ...what else one can desire more than to feel that love ...I can say for her ..love never came with any justification ..that's why she loved way beyond ..beyond every obstacle ..caste .religion ..sick-minds ...etc ...she just loved full of her extent ...isn't it  feels so good to know ? yeah..it is.

Well..when everything was so perfect then what misery happened to her ..that was "BREAK UP "..and that happens like a catastrophe ....but let me tell you girl ..that was not your fault at all and you know that well..
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BTW ,,why this Break-up thing happens when you actually are in love so deep with someone you cant live without or a single moment you can't  think about of your life...and majorly who is liable for that ..whom to blame ..when you are barely in the state of thinking of anything ..Was it  her mistake to fell in love with wrong person ? Or Does she needs to feel bad for herself wasting such precious time of her life on that wrong person who broke her heart and walk away ? ...

I know uncountable questions will comes in your mind ...and the answer you should tell yourself is "NO " ..Infact a BIG NO....because the people that are quick to walk away are the ones who never intended to stay ..and he is the one who walked away ....and you never ...so ..He is going to be sorry he lost you , stop worrying ..forget the past ..forget the pain .and remember what an incredible woman you are ....you deserve to be with somebody who makes you happy ..somebody who doesn't complicate your life ..somebody who won't hurt you again...Its your life ..live it just your own way no matter what ..do whatever makes you happy ...it could be shopping ..eating out ..watching 90's movies ....gossip with girl-friends over a cup of tea ...make-over ...flaunting yourself ...may be sometimes get mad at someone ( in a funny way) ...it just could be anything ..and that not necessarily  should make sense all the time ..its just to make yourself happy and nothing else....you are best your own way ....and to make you feel special nobody random needs to pretend loving you  ...!!!!! I know you can get over that bad relationship.....  I am pretty sure you will be back to yourself very soon ...YOU ARE SPECIAL. 

Well ..I know its not that easy but honestly not impossible ...and whenever you are going through the BREAK UP PHASE ..Do yourself a favor and learn how to walk away ..When a connection starts to fade .learn how to let it go ..When a person starts to mistreat you ..learn how to move on ..to something and someone better..Don't waste your energy trying to force something that is not meant to be ..Because the truth is .for every person who doesn't value you..there are tons more to love you better -DO BETTER !!!!

A Heartbreak is a blessing from GOD .Its just his way of letting you realize that he saved you from the wrong person ...and now I probably feel that keeping such things in mind you can help yourself to get away from the sick relationships.....but even if all these things doesn't work for you then there is a striking idea for you that can actually work ..."If someones breaks your heart GO and PUNCH THEM IN THE  FACE ..YES DO IT and then TREAT YOURSELF WITH GOOD FOOD " ..(Laughter) ...may be it works ...!!!!!! 

So ..Always remember YOU ARE SPECIAL ..and never regret too " If its good .its wonderful ..If its bad ..its experience..!!!!!!!!!

A voice lost around forever.... But the Silence reminds me of something untold unsolved...!!!!

Yes, It is ...!!!!!

There is something what I want to share  ..don't know to whom and why but may be somewhere it makes me feel relaxed. Although,  Its of no use writing about such thing, It doesn't make any difference now at all . What I can feel inside about it is very diminished part ,just nothing.

How come someone sense the vulnerability ahead ? How It feels like when actually something terrific happens..!!! Does the phase of the phenomena becomes calculative matter of time ?? There are a lot to be curious about ..just to find the truth and reason behind all these ...

But whenever deed happens which is not acceptable by humanity ,the whole universe becomes heavy-laden , It lefts behind all the pain of the energy that is no more in its previous form any longer.

But with the passing of time.. I came to know the reality, concept of the phenomena  happens to us..
So, now I freed myself from this maze of questions , and trying to think afterwards ...because there a lot to see !!! Their is no sorrow no pain anymore in that being ..then why to create pain in here.???

Let just send good message into the  universe to make lives better ...rather than creating pain for the things does not exist anymore !!!!

Like , there is light after every darkness..the same way ..the silence is again going to be the beautiful voice..!!!! 

The Pursuit of Happiness !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pursuit of Happiness comes in the pursuit. If you are constantly striving to progress in your life, to learn, to be inspired, and to be happy, you will set yourself up for a life of happiness. 

The desires you crave are waiting for you to fill them. Do what makes you happy, find your passions, strive to be your best, and you will relish in the moments of joy that come with a desire fulfilled.  Your body, mind, and spirit are constantly developing desires and aspirations, searching for ways to bring them into fruition. Listening to your inner voice will take you on a path dedicated to progress, to learn, to enjoy…life.

 Work with others who seek the same desires in life as you. Find an environment that lets you learn, grow, and be inspired. Connecting with people of similar passions is one of the best ways to stay focused on what you enjoy. The people you connect with are the ones who lift you up when you’re feeling down with their inspiration and guidance. You ultimately end up doing the same for them, whether you realise it or not.

Knowing that happiness is a journey; knowing where joy comes in the form of fulfilled desires (and that it comes in moments), will allow you to feel a sense of gratitude throughout your path.Remember that you will not always be happy, but can feel better knowing that you are in constant pursuit of reaching your dreams, both big and small.Living through your desires will allow you to do what you never thought you were capable of, and see a side of yourself you never knew existed. You’ll be a part of something greater – which will lead you down a path of never ending possibilities.Your life is what you make of it. 

As long as you see what leads you to happiness, you will never stop pursuing it.Through search and pursuit, listening and learning, connecting and helping, your journey through life will be one of fulfilment. To keep moving forward is the key…..
      

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY LITTLE SISTER..... !!!!!!!

YES .. First of  all I would like to thanks my parents for blessed me with such a precious gift in the form of my sister. 


A sister is always there for you no matter what you are going through. And If she yells at you or gets mad its because she cares about you and she is trying to keep you on the right track. Sisters shares childhood memories and grown up dreams.

Its your Birthday ..The day you came into this world for us to make lives more happier than ever.

I am so very lucky ..I am so happy too. To have a great sister like you who brings happiness to the family. If I could pull down the rainbow, I would write your name on it and pull it back in the sky, to let everyone know, how colorful my life is with a sister like you.

I still remember the fights we had, the joy we shared, the quality time we spent, the memories we cherished. Although, we are far a little from each other as of now but its not that far from heart . 

It was nice to growing up with someone like you...someone to lean on, someone to count on, someone to tell on. 

You know, our root's says we are sister and our heart says we are friends !!!!!!!

My little sissy you are fantastic,you are the best. To have a wound up with a sister like you, Makes me feel like i am blessed. On your Birthday, Lets make a promise to each other that we will share rocky times to divide our pain and shout out loud together in our times of joy, So that we can multiply our happiness.

There may be gifts, flowers, chocolates  and many special things on your birthday. I hope my wish will be something special that will make the day more special.

              "Many Many Happy Returns Of The Day"

              " Happy 20th Birthday little sister " ......LOVE YOU, STAY BLESSED !!!!!!

Yet to Learn More ...!!!

OH YES....!!!!!!!!

There is a lot to learn yet .. everyday in life .. Sometimes by choice then sometimes by need ....
But Life is all about Learning all the time infact in every fraction of the moment.  And Why not ??
After all Learning has no age or time constraints . Everyday We are learning and implementing that in life.  And the best part of it is we are here not alone in this session of life , every single person out there is doing the same . 

Yes , When we are in the phase of learning we do mistakes again and again but we never give up , we just make it happen at all cost. Its such an strange thing to think that in the span of life time don't know how long but we do learn every possible things which we want to do and at last we just leave everything behind us . But besides everything , there is only one truth i.e. Life is one chance game
 " Do it or Drop it"here only right in the moment. 

Well , You must be thinking reading this what i am talking about ..what learning all a sudden ..?
Actually , Nowadays , I am on the session of learning new thing in my life by my choice obviously.
I am in the beginning stage of riding , learning technicality , synchronization between mind and time .
What I feel while riding is my feet are not down anymore , I am all set to fly, leaving time behind .
Actually , I feel very light , fresh when the air comes in contact with me then I take the energy of air and keep riding leaving everything behind. Although , I am not a proper rider yet but still its such an extra-ordinary feeling. 

It seems like I got any power that I can use whenever I need it , Off course , It will take time may be a week , a month or even more but by one day I would be able to ride like a Rider . So, The concern is there is nothing we cant do , we can do everything .. all its need just an intention to learn.

I wrote about this because I feel everything we do we learn gives us experiences , many things comes in mind , heart at the same time but we may be never actually give it a thought to mention anywhere. 
We take it as a work to do , not to feel , to love or to enjoy. So , I mentioned what I feel when I learn my thing and trust me this way of thinking about your learning makes actually a difference and gives zeal more than every single last time . If we are doing something why not to make its special....!!

OKAY... That's all for today .. As , I will become the rider exact like my way ..I  will come up with this topic again and share what I feel then...!!!!!! 
It makes me happy when I share...!!!!! If you do the same thing you know what it feels like and If you don't do it then give it a try ."Trust Me "..

Till then I am wrapping up ....!!!!!!!!





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New year...New Workplace ... New Experience.. New Peoples ... !!!!!! 2016 :)

Hey There ...Everyone ... First of all Wishing everyone very happy new year ... Have great year ahead... With lots of candies...!!!!

$o, I guess everyone is doing good .. I believe New year brings new things ...for each n everyone...!!! The same way life took a turn this year... 2016 brought new job for me .. As I was expecting and even firmly decided to switch my job next year 2016 onwards... And that happened too... !!!!

$o, Today is first day at new job...  I am pretty excited but a bit nervous too at the same time... Well that happens with everyone !!!

You know what kind of feeling it is ... When you are very much new at your workplace ... You are just like clueless ... What to do ? How to exactly behave ? Should I say this or not ? Looking wierdly at everyone's faces... Having that stupid question mark on the for head... Sitting silently ...!!! Observing everything around...  Whenever meet someone giving that shophisiticated smile .... Etc etc...!!! Ufffffff ..!!!

All that things.... That so weird...but funny too...!!!!
Well , Hopefully I am wishing good luck to me... So that I can do every best possible things to make my work better...!!!!
Till then take care ...!!!!!